People out there sometimes still think sex/kink is going to be flawless and perfect and has to be serious/in scene the whole time are only really hurting themselves and robbing themselves and their partners of joy and freedom to explore both of their interests and enjoyment.
That and honestly just stressing themselves out about sex in general which just takes the fun out of it. Just remember that porn is like any movie, edited. Actual sex/kink is full of often hilarious moments. And its good to embrace them.
Especially with kinky play and ... many neurodivergent people engage in kink and...it has absolutely led to some weird side chatter from both sides while being kinky. Several times while having a man balls deep in my ass with a man tugging on a leash on me its just turned into sex while discussing queer kink and both of us still enjoying but letting our brains process due to us BOTH being neurodivergent.
Lately I've been doing small penis humiliation/chastity domming online a bit and I have been enjoying the HELL out of it. Last night I was feeling bad emotionally and like a trash dom and I just said 'k tonight you are my emotional support cocktail wiener.'
He saw that this morning and now we are both giggling. I like that kind of partner and its honestly relaxing to have someone like that to play with. I'd love to play with him more and maybe one day play IRL.
Either way we've had some pretty funny asides in our play and its very comfortable.
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